Wednesday, July 03, 2013

Ask Annie

I started this blog long before Tumblr existed. I can see that Tumblr has more traffic, and more features that Blogger, and have thought about the switch. But so far, Blogger works well enough. One of the newer features of Tumblr, that I don't think Blogger has is the "ask" button.

Ever since the "ask me anything" button was invented, more and more readers are interacting with the admins of their favorite blogs. 

We haven't had this feature on My Sexy Spot, but I do publicly post the email and ask for submissions. And sometimes I get personal questions. One reader sent this list of 30 questions.







1: When did you lose your virginity?

18


2: Rough sex or soft sex?

Soft, then rough.

3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

'Unusual,' no. Kinky, absolutely.


4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?

Probably inside a downtown parking garage.


5: Favorite sex position?

Do I have to choose? I like them all, but I really really like doggy.


6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?

Both. Sometimes I'm feeling frisky and aggressive, but a lot of times I like to be taken.


7: Have you ever had any one night stands?

No. I've had relationships that could be described as "lovers" --recreational sex, light emotional attachment, fun, sometimes short and fleeting...especially in my college years, but never a single classic "1-night and never see them again" thing.

8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?

Yes please. All of the above.


9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Yes. parking garage. park. dressing room. bathroom. car while driving on highway (oral, masturbation).

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

Almost.


11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?

Crotchless.


12: How often do you have sex?

Not often enough. But probably on average once a week.


13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?

Oh yes. Well, my partner, of course. But fantasies about many close friends...


14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

I love giving, but honestly, who doesn't prefer receiving?


15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?

The first time I squirted, I thought I had peed in bed. I was mortified. It wasn't until years later did I realize squirting wasn't abnormal, and that it was caused by deep g-spot orgasms.


16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?

"In-A-Gadda-da-Vidda"by Iron Butterfly. (Just kidding, but that would be funny)


17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?

"quelqu'un qui m'a di" by Carla Bruni. Her voice melts me.


18: Are you into dressing up for sex?

For sure. My partner, Will, is a filmmaker, and we have a lot of cameras at home. We have a whole costume rack. Cowgirl, cheerleader, nurse...


19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?

I like taking baths, and often, it's a lovely place to masturbate. But when it comes to sex, I prefer the shower. More room. And I like standing and being pushed up against the tiles. Or I turn around and he takes me from behind. We can't linger, or the hot water will run out. So we go for it--hard and fast. It's a great way to start the morning.


20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?

Hummm... so many. I have a lot of "girl crushes." If you read this blog, you'll see a lot of posts of girls I'd like to cuddle and explore.


21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?

Haven't. Would. Fantasize about often, both MMF and MFF.


22: Do you/would you use sex toys?

All the time. I have a blue penis-shaped vibrator, and a small jelly cock ring vibe. I have another black vibrator shaped like a wand that has been bent into a U curve. It's out of batteries from use.


23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?

Duh.

24: Would you have sex with your best friend?

Would I have sex with a friend--yes. Best friend? Probably not. We go back too far, and she's more like a sister. Sex with her would be weird. But I do have some close friends who are pretty cute, and sometimes have dirty thoughts of them when I masturbate.


25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)

Well, yeah. I pee. To clear the urinary tract. That might not sound sexy, but it's a lot more sexy than a bladder infection. Then, often, a quick shower to rinse off.


26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?

Kindness, good humor, intelligence.


27: Early morning sex or late night sex?

I tend to need my cup of coffee first in the morning. So I'd have to say night sex. However, on weekends when I can sleep in, I like "brunch sex."


28: Favorite body part on the opposite sex?

A big hard throbbing cock.... sort of kidding. Strong hands are actually probably the most erotic part. Will has great hands. And eyes. And a guy with a good butt. Those aren't as common as they should be.


29: Favorite body part on the same sex?

hummm... eyes maybe first. Or her smile. both can melt me.


30: Do you watch porn?

Uh, I admin an XXX blog... yeah.

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